A very interesting way of winning, and to me this is the best way. Sometimes it is good to step aside and allow others to bask in the sunshine, although that sunshine is yours. Giving always gives internal satisfaction, so unspoiled by a cause or reason. This way we can truly check if we are whom we proclaim we are. It is always easy to say "I give more than I receive". But it is difficult to step aside when the time comes to allow others take what they need although you need it too.